Stories from the ridgeline

Honest words for the roads we never expected.

Reflections on fatherhood, faith, healing, leadership, adventure, and the spaces between expectation and reality.

Summits, Switchbacks, and Staying True

The Winding Trail Life doesn’t always unfurl like a neatly drawn map. The lines we sketch as children (graduate, build a career, marry, raise children, retire) rarely survive contact with the weather of reality. Instead, most of us find ourselves on winding trails: paths with switchbacks, false summits, detours, and unexpected valleys. From the outside, […]

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Keeping the Fire: Finding Strength When Life Gets Hard

I’ve spent nights in the mountains where the fire was my only anchor. The wind cut sharp, the dark pressed in, and no matter how close I pulled my sleeping bag around me, the cold stayed. But the flames gave just enough light and warmth to remind me I wasn’t completely undone. Life feels a […]

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Pedals, Pixels, and the Paths We’ve Lost

When the Bikes Vanished:  There was a time when a pile of bikes at someone’s house meant the neighborhood had awoken. That was our trailhead: pickup games, scraped knees on driveways, and the steady hum of collective mischief. We climbed the day together, step by sunlit step. But those piles have disappeared. Now, for many […]

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Raising Grit: What A Mountain Taught My Son About Resilience

The Approach: A Trail of Firsts Some trails leave more than footprints. They leave quiet evidence on the heart; signs that we’re braver and stronger than we ever believed. On July 16th, my son Ben and I stood at the trailhead of Mount Bierstadt, one of Colorado’s revered 14ers, rising 14,060 feet into the thin, […]

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False Summits: When Others’ Expectations Distort Your Climb

In 2023 while hiking Mt. Elbert with my daughter, I learned about the cruel nature of false summits. From the trail head, we could see what looked like the peak glinting in the sun. Every muscle in our legs burned to reach it. Each switchback felt like progress toward that shining goal. We finally crested […]

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